How to Tell if She's Interested?

Understanding when a woman is flirting can be tough task for many guys. This article is about female body language.

I am sure you must have found it pretty difficult to understand the body language of a woman so as to know if she is flirting with you or not. These clues are the ones that will enable you to know if you will be able to get the woman’s number if you approach her.

If you get an expertise at understanding these signal, then you will be able to attract and improve your seduction methods. There are 8 fundamental signs which all women use to show their interest and attract towards you.

1. She is enjoying every moment
If you see a woman enjoying immensely with her friends, enjoying, giggling and laughing, but every time looking at you then it is certain that she is interested in you. She does that because she wants to give you an impression that she is a fun loving and happy kind of a person.

By enjoying the company of friends, she is telling you that she love socializing and is basically a gregarious person.

2.  Eye contact
If a woman makes an eye contact with you, it is the boldest form of showing interest in you. if the eye contact is for a longer duration, she is actively showing her interest in you.

Eye contact is not a very subtle way to flirt, it is pretty bold on the woman’s part to do so. So if you see a woman doing that, don’t ever doubt whether she is interested in you or not.

3. Vertical Scan Check Out
Women love to check out guys. The only difference is they do it in a subtler way than most of the guys.

If the woman scans a guy up and down, it is for sure that the woman is checking him out. This is also known as the ‘vertical scan’.
The vertical scan works like this. The woman looks at you face and moves to feet and finally to your heard. If she does this she is definitely interested in you and wants to know more about you.

4. A woman does the preening act
When a woman is aware that you are checking her out, she will put all efforts to look good. Her actions for looking good would be preening and smoothing her hair and clothes.

The above actions are not carried out consciously. They are kind of reflex action. They cannot be controlled by her. If she does this, you have interpret it as an invitation to you and you should approach her and strike a conversation with her.

Indication 5 – Open body language
Once you approach a woman, notice the flirting indications she gives you. these are classic signs used since ages. Once you notice them, it will be far more easy for you to strike a conversation and build a relationship with her.

The first classic indication is if she “opens herself” to you.

Body language of a woman will tell you all if she is open to you or not. It is the best way for a woman to show that she is attracted and interested in you. When open to you, her arms and wrists will be towards you.

6. Stroking her body
A woman stroking her body, especially her hair or neck is a sure indication of flirting. She might even stroke her thigh! This are definite indications of her flirtation because they are a manifestation of the thoughts that are sprouting up in her mind.

A woman touching her body, usually means that she is imagining you doing or touching her there.

7. Comes closer to you
To become more intimate with you, a woman will come closer to you while talking to you. Lowering of her voice is also an indication, which is done so that she can connect to you at a higher and deeper level.
Both of these gestures are a big indication that she is attracted to you and wants to come closet to you.

8.  Looks at your eyes and lips as if craving for them
A very good gesture to let you know that she wants to be kissed is when you looks longingly at your face.

If you come to know that a woman is looking to your mouth and eyes, she is giving you an invite to kiss her. So don’t hesitate and delay, get going and act…
Kiss her!

Once you start on the kissing note, you have taken a giant first step and can easily make things more intimate between you both

What Do Guys Like To Talk About?

You think that if you tell about your new dress or haircut he will be intersthing..? maybe.

But think again, men like to talk about other stuff then women.

Men like to talk, and there is no denying that. A plethora of magazines, dating sites and relationship advice portals will convince you that a guy only cares about feeding his starving libido and watching everything that moves on a sports channel. The difference is, they are talking about boys who are yet to reach a level of maturity. However, if you are dating a man who loves you, knows his responsibilities and sees a future with you, then it is important to know what do guys like to talk about to girls. Knowing what’s on your man’s mind, will help you build an emotional connect and strengthen your relationship like never before.
Here are some of the think that your man will open up and like to talk about with you:

What a Man Needs to Talk

Ambitious Plans
Primitive instincts suggests that a man is a provider and protector. By the virtue of these instincts, men happen to chalk out ambitious plans in intricate detail as compared to women. They plan out their academics and seek employment, which would support them financially. Usually, a man happens to be far more ambitious than a woman. Thus your man will need to and want to talk about his ambitions and dreams. Seeking your support and approval, are the underlying reasons for talking about his ambitious plans to you.

Friends and Family
The equation men share with their family and friends is a lot different from what we women share with ours. Although a man doesn’t say it, but he cares about every insipid details that happens with the people in his life. Hence, he will tell you everything that happens with them and how it affected him. Get involved in the conversations by asking him questions and reacting to what he says. Talking about family and friends is a way of involving you in his life that still remains undisclosed to you.

Failures and Achievements
It’s only human to share your sadness to seek comfort or share your happiness to double it. And if your guy talks to you about his failures and achievements it is only natural! Guys like to boast about their accomplishments, because for them life is always a competition of superiority. On the other hand, they also like to talk about their failures, as they want to be reassured that nothing has changed in a relationship because of his pitfalls.

Plans for Life
If a guy is planning to spend his life with you, he will want to talk about his life with you. He will share his perspective of how he wants his life with you to be. Plans for life, such as where you’d settle down, his career plans, whether you’d be staying with his family and so forth is what he’ll like to share with you. The only purpose of doing so, is to know your opinion about the same. The answer for what do guys like to talk about, is not any different from what girls like to talk about.

In totality, both the sexes like to share their feelings, emotions and view points with each other. Active listening is an important part of getting to know your man better. Thus, initiate conversations and be an active part of it with a genuine interest. All of this is done, share a bond that goes beyond the physicality of a relationship. An emotional bond is much deeper and much serious one. Making an effort to understand the other person whilst in a relationship is the only way of forging a connect that is worth all the effort that ensues all through the relationship.

Alon

How To Know if He's Really Likes You?

Have you met a guy recently and found yourself wondering if he likes you?

But seriously, is he in love with you?

You want him to like you - but how can you be sure he really his, before you gonna say somthing that there is no way back from?

1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
   
   • He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is tried to put other boys down to make them look good.
2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
   • His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things – all are good signs of a guy liking you.
4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you – does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
5. Check for signs of nervousness. Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
6. Smile- A big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.
7. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence – do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
8. Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls – the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.
9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you – it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
11. Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you – but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.

    12. Notice these tell-tale signs:

• If he wants to talk to you all the time.
• If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him.
• If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do.
• If he treats you differently to other girls.
• If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
• If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
• If he seems to always want to hang out with you.
• If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you.
• If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles.
• If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you.
• If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you.
• If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you.
• If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him.
• If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
• If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you.
• If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party.
• If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back.
• If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing.
• If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.
• If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around.
• If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.

So ladies, tell us if he is the one.. Alon